K. Michelle offers some words of wisdom to women everywhere in the Benny Boom-directed video for “Can’t Raise a Man,” the second single off her debut Rebellious Soul.

The R&B songstress performs against a lush backdrop as her fellow females put up with cheating, abuse, and drug use from their men. But no matter how hard they try, they realize that it’s too late to change a grown man’s behavior.

Her mixtape Still No Fucks Given drops on Valentine’s Day featuring remixes to Frank Ocean’s “We All Try” and August Alsina’s “I Luv This Shit.”

On February 21, K will hit the road with Robin Thicke on his North American tour.

Watch her cautionary tale below.